How Did I Love Myself?

I am learning that to love myself is to accept myself. I have tried to compensate the lack of love I had for myself with the love I obtained from a previous relationship, but people come and inevitably leave. 

I am my own lifelong partner. We must acknowledge that at no point will we ever achieve perfection, so all we can do is to acknowledge that we will always be flawed, and we will have to love ourselves regardless. 

Beautiful Isabelle is learning to love herself.

Beautiful Isabelle is learning to love herself.

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Accept the good, the bad and the ugly. Change what we can and get along with what we cannot. However, acceptance is a process. We must constantly choose to love and accept ourselves. 

Fortunately, unlike the uncertainty of the world, it is a choice that will never be taken from us. No matter what happens, loving ourselves will always be an option. 

So, do I love myself? I am still in the process. It takes time but I know I will get there someday. 

Ana Isabelle Dolor

Ana Isabelle Dolor is a 25-year old accountant living in Singapore, and like many 20-something year-olds, she is still exploring life trying to figure out what exactly she wants from her future. She loves TRYING to lead a healthier lifestyle and is always finding ways to be creative with the birthday cards she gives away.

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